about Me
Hello, I’m so glad you have found Me.
I am a PhD student, artist, and psyche worker whose passion is dancing in your darkness. My fantasies have always tended toward the taboo and forbidden. Raised Roman Catholic, I grew up fascinated by power and learned from an early age that pain was transcendent. I came to revere the relationship between those who inflict pain and those who receive it, and when I found BDSM, I realized this drama of divine suffering was my destiny.
I am an empathetic sadist who derives pleasure from exposing the desires that lie underneath your skin - the dark, depraved secrets you do not even dare to speak are fuel to my fire. My play is psychological and cerebral - focused on capturing your mind so that you offer your body to me as sacrifice. Elegant, brilliant, and cruel, I am a natural Domina who delights in breaking down the select few who prove themselves worthy.
Play
My philosophy
My style ranges from cruel and demanding to playful and creative to seductive and merciless. Like the Goddess Kali, I contain multitudes and deploy them at my will, depending on your needs, offerings, and desires. Here are some of my manifestations:
Seductress: I lure you in, edge you, taunt you, until you are overcome with desire, and in that moment I turn it all against you. You’re helpless now, reduced to begging, pleading, and craving - but all the satisfaction is now mine.
Humiliatrix: Even though you are naked on your knees, my words seem to derobe you further, stripping any pretensions you have left. My giggling just makes the shame burn hotter until you feel totally exposed for the pathetic thing you are.
Domina: The capacity to think has escaped you, and all that remains are my orders and a burning desire to please me. You discover that your body is capable of far more than you ever dreamed as my unwavering discipline leads you to transcendence.
Goddess: My body is a temple, and your sole purpose is to worship, and give offering. In silence, by candlelight, After I initiate your body with my whip, my needles, my rope I grant you the honor of meditating on the transcendent beauty of my feet, my legs, my armpits. The residual stings, the imprint of my strength on your body fuels your desire as you awe at my splendor.
My favorite activities
While I indulge in a wide range of fetishes and kinks, here are some of My absolute favorites:
Humiliation / Objectification / Degradation
Heavy Impact / Brutalization / Heavy Bruising
Genital Torture
Blood Play (needles, scalpels, staples)
Mindfuck / Psychological Play
Knife Play / Edge Play / Fear Play
Ritual / Spiritual Play
Predicaments / Endurance / Ordeals
Foot Gagging, Foot/Boot Trampling
Orgasm Denial / Chastity / Post-Orgasm Torture
Gender-Affirming Gender Play (Sissification, Feminization Lesbian Fantasy)
Role Play (Cuckolding, Office, Kidnapping, Interrogation, Pet)
SCENARIOS
In person: you and I meet at a well-equipped play space. After negotiating, I leave you to undress and wait naked and kneeling on the floor. you hear My heels click down the hallway and the anticipation is unbearable. you feel My breath on your neck as I wrap a collar around you. It’s time to play.
Social Rendezvous: I meet you at an elegant bar or restaurant. After I order drinks and we exchange small talk, I slip you a pair of panties under the table and instruct you to change. And so begins Our night of discrete fun.
NiteFlirt: Have secrets or fantasies you want to explore before serving Me in person? Not based in NYC or the Bay Area? We can still have plenty of fun. Call Me on My NiteFlirt line, and melt at the sound of My voice, and the elaborate word pictures I love to paint. Look at My Niteflirt profile here.
Double Domme & Group Sessions
I love any opportunity to celebrate My favorite Dominas.
Peruse My friends here to see if there is anyone you would like to invite into O/our fun.
Protocol
Tribute & Deposits
Tribute is determined based on the type of session and length of engagement, however it starts at $900 for 2 hours. I do not book sessions under 2 hours, unless on tour.
I offer discounts to women, trans people, non-binary people, two-spirit people, and gender non-confirming people. Please inquire.
I require a 20% deposit for all bookings, received within 24 hours of confirming the date/time of our appointment, unless specified otherwise.
LocatioN
I am located in New York City. My in-call locations are in Tribeca and Midtown.
I am available for outcalls and FMTY’s with ample screening, verification, a consultation phone call, and an additional fee.
I tour frequently to D.C., and annually to SF, Paris, and London. Please subscribe to my newsletter for upcoming tour dates.
NYC Availability
I often book at least 2-3 weeks in advance, so it’s always recommended you reach out early.
I do not accept same-day bookings with new clients and usually book 2-3 weeks in advance.
TOURING & FMTY AVAILABILITY
My tours often book up well in advance, though if I am on tour I will consider last-minute and even same-day booking requests if I have the availability.
Given my busy travel schedule, I require at least one month’s notice for Fly Me To You (FMTY) requests.
EXPECTATIONS
I expect you to arrive neat, clean, fresh, and exactly on time.
I consider reasonable outfit requests when made with at least 48 hours notice.
For sessions that require very specific outfit or equipment requests, you are expected to procure or pay for them.
After our scene, you are expected to write a short reflection on our time together and send it within 48 hours.
Limits
I never switch.
I do not perform sessions nude or partially nude.
I do not do full toilet sessions.
I do not do race play.
I do not humiliate based on gender, sexuality, or body type.
cancellation policy
If you cancel a session within 48 hours, I will keep your deposit.
If you cancel a session within 24 hours, I require 25% of the session Tribute.
If you cancel a session within 12 hours, I require 50% of the session Tribute.
The only exception to this policy is a COVID-19 related cancellation.
Indulge
I have a refined palate and a taste for luxury. My favorite material is leather, though when home my preference is silk or Alo loungewaear. I adore tasting menus, great theater, and sipping quality cocktails in gorgeous locales. Much of my day-to-day life is spent in libraries and archives, so when I get the chance to embrace my hedonistic desires, I do so fully. I travel often — equally smitten with adventures to new cities as I am with hiking excursions in stunning natural landscapings.
Tastes & Preferences
Clothing brands: Helmut Lang, Mugler, Alo, Theory
Leather clothing: Kolby Briane, Naasene, Anoeses
Latex clothing: Atsuko Kudo
Jewelry: Alighieri
Shoes: Yves Saint Laurent, Prada
Leather gear: Mr. S Leather, McHurt
Cuisine: Southeast Asian, Chinese, French, Italian, Japanese
Wine: Cabernet Franc, high skin-contact orange (ideally Georrgian), Montepuciliano d’Abruzzo, late-harvest Napa Valley Cabernet Sauvignon, Blanc de Noirs Champagne
Favorite films: You and the Night, Basic Instinct, Night Porter, Knife + Heart, The Handmaiden
Gifts
Gift cards or surprises are an excellent way to win my favor. Surprise me with a gift from my wishlist here.
Stats:
Dress size: 2 / small (same for tops and bottoms)
Pant size: 26 waist or size 4
Bra size: 34AA
Shoe size: US 41 (in non-designer shows, more often a 39.5/40) or a women’s 9.5
Activism
An excellent way to prove your devotion to me is by donating to the community-based, sex worker groups I support:
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Location & Availability:
I am currently in NYC.
Upcoming Tours:
Philadelphia: 9/22
DC: 10/3 - 10/5
Baltimore: 11/15-11/17
Brisbane: 12/15-12/23